Holding onto grudges may feel good at first, but eventually, that anger and resentment begin to eat away at us. If you’ve learned the (sometimes complicated) art of forgiveness, then your life has become more and more successful each day that you live free of that anger.
Forgiving people is more about allowing yourself to heal rather than letting someone off the hook. You’ll find that your mind and body are more at peace once you learn to forgive.
2. You’re Still Alive And Healthy
This is one of the most important signs of success. Life can be full of so many twists and turns, ups, and downs – if you’ve ever struggled with low points in your life or depressive episodes, you probably have realized how hard it is to keep pushing forward. But if you’ve made it out of every low point and you’re still alive, then that is definitely a cause for celebration. Congratulations – you’re a success.
3. You Can Be Yourself
No matter who that happens to be, if you’re in a place mentally and physically where you can be yourself and express yourself how you want, then you’ve reached a place of success that few others can achieve. Sure, there are people with thousands upon thousands of dollars, but they’re often stuck and unable to express themselves how they truly wish and inspire no one to be true to themselves. If you’ve made it this far in your journey to success, then you’re doing amazing.
4. You Haven’t Given Up On Your Dreams
Even if you haven’t achieved them yet, you’re still making plans and moving forward with trying to reach your goals. Success isn’t always measured in whether or not you’ve met all your life goals – sometimes, it just means having them in the first place, and refusing to give up. As long as you’ve always had a dream, and you keep moving forward and taking chances and steps to achieve it, you’re doing great.
5. Someone Loves You
Whether this person is your family, a friend, or your lover, having someone who cares about you and loves you is an important way to measure success. Life can get lonely, and it’s always better when you’re sharing all the ups and downs with someone who cares about you. A love that is unconditional and unyielding is one way to measure your success, and if you’ve found it, then you’re on the right track.
6. You Have Home And Clothes
It’s time to take a step back and look around you. If you have a home and a roof over your head as well as clothes on your back, then I would say that you’re doing pretty good. Regardless of all the other things going on around you, if you’ve managed to cultivate a home for yourself and keep yourself dressed and fed, then any other measurements of success don’t really matter. You’re doing great.
7. You Keep Improving Despite All The Obstacles
Sometimes, people feel like they’ve reached their peak and there’s no reason to keep moving forward and learning more and improving themselves as a person. Even if you’ve failed a few times in your life, you’re still a success if you learn from those failures and mistakes and use them to keep improving yourself every day. It doesn’t matter if you’ve failed ten times or one hundred – as long as each failure is met with an attempt to better yourself.